Dearheart. Did you know that I’ve been sending this missive since 2011? Ten years. And I haven’t missed a single week. So it feels momentous– scandalous– to say this. I’m going on sabbatical from this weekly missive for at least a month or two. I’ll miss you so much– how vividly I hold you in my mind as I write, […]

Hello dear kindred spirits, oh you of the Big Feelings and tender heart. You with the big dreams and the thin skin. You with the wild gifts and the wild longings. I’m thinking about you in this season. How you might be feeling just the tiniest bit floored and overwhelmed and scattered and bewildered and […]

Today I want to give you a communication tool you can put to use right away in your marriage, partnership, or workplace. It’s a fork. But it’s also the best communication tool we’ve ever learned and has saved my marriage more times than you might believe. My husband Nick and I swear by it. We […]

Picture me in 2015. I’m a happy solo mom, living in Portland, and after years of struggle, I finally feel like I have MADE it. My little girl is blooming and thriving. My shaky little business, which I started with a foolhardy amount of risk and moxie, has grown up to be a steady and […]

So yesterday, I was listening to Glennon Doyle’s new podcast, We Can Do Hard Things. The first episode was about anxiety, and I was so curious because I have always wanted to know what it was like to have Actual Anxiety, as opposed to just being a scaredy-cat all the time. Like me. But it […]