As I sit to write this, the snow is gently coming down and I’ve snagged a brief window of time while all the kids, who are home from school today, are miraculously occupied. I am typing SO fast right now, guys.  It’s my first winter in Alberta, Canada, and I’m still new enough to the […]

When I first met @epicdanger, he told me that he wasn’t a feminist. And I didn’t say a word. I just gave him the snake-eyed-cold-lidded-death-stare. Then it turned out that what Canadians mean by feminist isn’t exactly the same as what Americans mean by feminist, and also much to his chagrin I unleashed four years of women’s […]

True story. I’m standing at the kitchen counter. “Babe, do you know which glass is mine?” I ask, staring at the three identical half-full glasses of water. (Clearly I have succumbed to that thing married people do, which is to become entirely helpless when their partner is present.) “Ummmm, I don’t know, but also… Honey? […]

I toss around the acronym “EFBA” quite a bit here. It stands for “epic fucking badass.” My clients are EFBAs. I bet you are too. And I am going to level with you– so am I. People sometimes think it’s cocky or arrogant that I walk around calling myself an epic fucking badass.  But that phrase […]

Last weekend I gathered with some of my EFBA clients in Portland for their “Oh Hell Yes We Did” celebration– a day of workshopping and partying to wrap up their year-long EFBA coaching program. It was SO fantastic to see them, and hug them hard, and reflect with them on all their insights and growth […]