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I’ve got five kids, I’m a queer feminist, and I just might be the only life coach in the world who doesn’t believe in the Law of Attraction.

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After a lifetime of being OH SO GOOD, a little scandalous hedonism was good medicine for my soul.

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Last week I told you about a time in my early 20s when I was so lonely I thought I might die. After that kitchen epiphany, I tried for a few more months to try and squash everything down in my unhappy marriage and miserable job. But my soul finally roared up like an angry […]

How a pot of curry and a lot of tears helped me find me find my way back home.

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Life Is Hard

Today I want to tell you a story from a long time ago. ​​​ This was when I was 23 and living in Philadelphia. I was out of college, unhappily married, and working a fancy job where I spent all my time trying to hide under my desk from the smart scary people who kept giving me terrifying tasks I couldn’t possibly complete. […]

This time of year always makes me want to curl up on the couch with a blanket and PONDER things. Ponder them deeply, pensively, deliciously. This hasn't happened as much as I'd like (because life, and having children-- in fact, at this very moment the babies are yelling at each other upstairs and I just remembered the birthday party starts in 15 minutes and we haven't wrapped the gift yet) but even a few minutes of quietly keeping myself company this week yielded a huge epiphany. Or not so much an epiphany as a big fat bright orange sign (very autumnal, don't you think?) sitting right there in the path in front of me. It's been there for a while, but I've been averting my gaze. It says, "YOU'RE RUNNING LOW. TIME TO FILL UP."

Time to replenish

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Life Is Beautiful

The trees have gone exuberantly golden, the sky is bright blue, and there’s a squash on my counter that’s about to be transformed into a thick, buttery soup. It’s autumn, and it’s GORGEOUS. This time of year always makes me want to curl up on the couch with a blanket and PONDER things. Ponder them deeply, pensively, […]

New house, new year, new chapter

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Life Is Hard

Nick and I were out in our new yard last night, grilling steak after the kids had gone to bed (which is to say that he was grilling and I was looking at the sky and drinking wine) and we were talking about all the stacks and stacks of things that need doing in our […]

How to cope when OH LORDY HOLY HELL.

When you’re in the THICK OF IT

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Epic Fucking Badass

So last week I told you how life had gotten a little cray cray around here. Since then, things have calmed down and we’re sailing ahead toward a peaceful move and a joyous family holiday with effortless productivity, emanating ease and grace, checking things off our lists with gratitude and joy. Hahahahahahhaha!!!! Nope. It started […]

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