Update: Love wins.  The Supreme Court finally struck down bans on same-sex marriage as unconstitutional.This is a victory for so many reasons, but I am rejoicing for a reason that is very personal.Dearhearts, guess what?After four years of being happily solo, I am in love.And the love of my life turns out to be a woman.  An […]

Last week we were talking about the tiny, unsexy, boring little actions required to create something wonderful.  You can catch up here.And then I got a great question from a reader:  How do you know when something is never going to (or meant to ) reach the tipping point and know that it’s time to let go […]

So ohmahgah horse whispering. SO DREAMY. If you’ve been reading here a while, you already know that horse whispering (it’s actually called equus coaching but that doesn’t adequately convey the poetic loveliness of what happens) is one of my most favorite things in the world. That’s why I make all my year-long EFBA clients go […]

We need to talk about anger….because I had the exact same conversation with three different women this week. (And then I got the same question on the radio this morning!) Good girls don’t get angry. Just be kind. Try to see their point of view. Have some compassion. Anger won’t help. Just move on. Any […]

  By the time you read this, I’ll be in California taking my EFBA clients on a horse whispering adventure.  It’s part of their year of transformation, where they build their EFBA muscles (that’s epic fucking badass, loves) in tiny and huge ways. But right now it’s still Tuesday and I’m working on my tan (ahem, […]