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I’ve got five kids, I’m a queer feminist, and I just might be the only life coach in the world who doesn’t believe in the Law of Attraction.

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In which I make the case for why you should TRUST YOURSELF.

When and how (and why) to trust yourself

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*Be The Change

Let me ask you a serious question. Are you drinking enough tea? Because January and February require extra tea: I consider it a vital nutrient. If you’re new here, welcome! I’m Katherine North, that’s me in my sweet husband’s office getting my earl grey fix, and this is the Saturday missive, a little love note I send out to […]

How to make BIG decisions. Even bigger than whether you should do yoga today.

Should I stay or should I go? How to make the big decisions

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*Secret Mystics

That’s me doing SO MUCH YOGA in Hawaii! I’m trying to keep going even now that I’m home; it’s one of the gentle shifts I’m incorporating, a la today’s missive on big decisions (read on!). We all face those moments when we have to make BIG decisions. Do I take this job? Do I walk away? […]

This is why you need to schedule something off in the future to look forward to...

I waited MONTHS for this

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*My Story

You will not believe where I am writing you from. There’s a ceiling fan whirring, I’m lying on an antique mahogany sleigh bed, and outside my window I can see blue sky, deep green, and tall palm trees. It seems unfathomable, but I am in Hawaii. The Big Island, in fact, and I’m here for […]

The Best Tradition For Our Blended Family

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*Parenting

When I fell in love and moved to Canada a few years ago, my new husband Nick and I joined our families to create the big beautiful blended family we have right now. The joy is bigger, and the challenges are bigger too– and those challenges turn up with extra intensity around the holidays. Different […]

If you're getting a lot of pushback from the people around you, they might be jerks-- BUT it might be that darned apology energy.

Is your apology energy sabotaging you?

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*Relationships

Have you ever made a perfectly reasonable request— for a raise, or for help with a project— and been met by a ridiculous, blustery, over-the-top negative response? Did it go so badly, in fact, that you felt stupid and wrong for having dared to ask in the first place? Now, maybe the person you were […]

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