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I’ve got five kids, I’m a queer feminist, and I just might be the only life coach in the world who doesn’t believe in the Law of Attraction.

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I wish I could send you this fragrance

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*My Story

These tiny snippets of daphne are an absolute marvel to me. Not just because they smell so impossibly, absurdly, WILDLY good. Although, swoon: the fragrance is out of the world, unreasonably joyful, exuberantly ecstatic, like lemons having a honeysuckle orgasm. They smell so good that I’m carrying my little bunch around the house with me and […]

Katherine North

Going on sabbatical

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*Boundaries

Dearheart. Did you know that I’ve been sending this missive since 2011? Ten years. And I haven’t missed a single week. So it feels momentous– scandalous– to say this. I’m going on sabbatical from this weekly missive for at least a month or two. I’ll miss you so much– how vividly I hold you in my mind as I write, […]

the EFBA journal for kindred spirits

A gift guide for kindred spirits

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Life Is Beautiful

Hello dear kindred spirits, oh you of the Big Feelings and tender heart. You with the big dreams and the thin skin. You with the wild gifts and the wild longings. I’m thinking about you in this season. How you might be feeling just the tiniest bit floored and overwhelmed and scattered and bewildered and […]

The Best Communication Tool You’ve Never Heard Of

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*Relationships

Today I want to give you a communication tool you can put to use right away in your marriage, partnership, or workplace. It’s a fork. But it’s also the best communication tool we’ve ever learned and has saved my marriage more times than you might believe. My husband Nick and I swear by it. We […]

up the spiral of growth

Up the spiral we go

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Picture me in 2015. I’m a happy solo mom, living in Portland, and after years of struggle, I finally feel like I have MADE it. My little girl is blooming and thriving. My shaky little business, which I started with a foolhardy amount of risk and moxie, has grown up to be a steady and […]

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